Try This When Your Relationship Is Not Going As Expected- The importance of Communication...

The importance of communication....

Many people will advise you to drop any relationship that you seem not to understand its direction anymore forgetting that in all human endeavors, we tend to face difficulty but we do all we can to get the issue resolved.

Relationship is one small but mighty issue among human as it has led to the down fall of great men and rise to fame for many others, this alone is enough to determine the extremity of relationship, hence, counseling someone in relationship requires one acting/putting him/herself in the other person's shoes in order to understand better before giving any advice.

When you don't seem to understand where the ship of your relationship is heading to, you need to be sure if you are still in control or not.

you have tried all best possible to put your partner to test when you observe the change in attitude but all proved abortive.

The only thing needed after all other things have been done to either move the relationship forward or to put an end in order to move on is "communication".

Communication here is not just the talking part of it but the facial expression also. This is because most times, the words that come out of our mouth are so deceptive and this will always be in war with our facial expression. For someone who can read the lips and the expression, you will always know the truth when you weigh the two means of communication together.

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When you have tried every other thing to make a relationship that is at the verge of breakup to work and it is still shaking, all you need to do at this stage is physical discussion (communication). Communication is very vital when it comes to handling relationship, you don't need to kill yourself in silence thinking everything is alright when your partner is busy test running, disclosing your mind will bring about the other person revealing some other hidden secrets too.

At the point of communication, you don't just need to listen but to also watch the expression behind every word as the expression even speaks volume than the words.

Never be afraid of the outcome of the discussion as it is for your good if you truly know what you want. At the end of it all and after deep thought, you will understand better and will be able to make the perfect decision.